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Let’s face it, Vermont isn’t the best place to be if you find yourself divorced, single or just plain lonely. Dating can be more of a chore akin to a job interview than a pleasurable experience. Unlike college or high school, the job place may be mighty slim pickings for those past their twenties. There are agencies such as Compatibles who will help you meet others, singles cruises and a relatively new service called speed dating.
The online services can be helpful but more than a bit scary (for men and women alike). Beware of married critters pretending to be 20 years younger and single. They’re out there. Guys will want to watch out for those wonderful ladies seeking “a financially secure gentleman with an open mind, age not important”. In plain English, that usually means “I don’t care about you but I could fall in love with your bank account”.

Arranging a first meeting or date in Vermont doesn’t have to be a big mistake. NEVER agree to meet for dinner with someone you haven’t met in person yet. It may be the longest couple hours of your life, or their’s. A quick get together for a coffee at a local cafe is usually enough time to ward off the “fight or flight” syndrome if the going gets rough. Have fun and don’t take it too seriously. Single folks, you have my sympathy!